Starting to question myself...

Do I want him?

Published on February 28, 2004 By Vampire Princess In Personal Relationships

I refer, of course, to the guy that I have been habouring what is possibly the world's largest crush for since late 2002. I've been thinking really hard about it, and have come to the realisation that once I got him I probably wouldn't want him anymore. You know that saying "You only wnat what you can't have?" It very much applies here. I grow more and more certain that, were I to actually GET him, he'd lose his appeal and I wouldn't want him anymore. I think half the fun is in the chasing. If that's gone, what do I have left? Oh sure, he's still sexy as all hell, and I would probably still want to bed him... But I wouldn't want anything outside of that.

*Sigh*

What's a girl to do?

Comments

brokedownprincess

on Mar 01, 2004

hey hun...well considering my nickname in high school was "Mistress Pimptress" my advice would be to go for it.....enjoy yourself have fun....if it doesnt work then oh well but if u dont go for it u may never be sure. do what makes you happy darling!!!

brokedownprincess

on Mar 01, 2004

and hey-he might be an awesome f*ck!!!!

imajinit

on Mar 02, 2004

well vampire princess, you asked "what's a girl to do?" so it sounds like you're asking for input. i'll give ya my point zero two

if you're worried that it's just the chase, and you'll lose interest afterwards, then the best thing you can do is get to know him really well before you do anything sexual with him... if you get to know him really well, and then find out you're no longer sexually attracted to him, then you just don't do him, and lose nothing.

if you get to know him really well, and the attraction continues to build, then that's bound to decrease the odds of you losing interest once the chase is done.

new-age nomad

on Mar 06, 2004

This has just inspired an article. Just lett'n ya know. I'll let you know when it's completed.

Trinitie

psychx

on Mar 07, 2004

Anyone notice how there is always someone with a joeuser name that contains word "princess" in it always in the personal relationship posts just another fairly obvious observation.

Sir Peter Maxwell

on Mar 07, 2004

Yes old chap and most of them are probably ugly fat girls yet they claim to be a princess.......... women are strange creatures!

Disclaimer for the sensitive souls - Sir Peter Maxwell is not insinuating that either Brokendownprincess, Vampire Princess or New-Age Nomad are ugly fat girls!.

new-age nomad

on Mar 07, 2004

wait, my name doesn't have Princess in...why am I included? And you never know...I could be an an ugly fat girl. Does it matter?

Trinitie

psychx

on Mar 07, 2004

lol peter maxwell that was witty

Sir Peter Maxwell

on Mar 07, 2004

Psychx - Thankyou

New-age nomad - I know your name doesn't have princess in it, I was just making a general observation that women who claim to be a "princess" are more often than not quite ugly. To answer your question of whether it matters if a woman is ugly and fat then it depends on what I want her for. For example if I am lost I would stop and ask for directions from an ugly fat woman but I would never have sexual relations with her. I hope that clears it up old girl!

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